Bisexual man not dating men

19 Dec

Another part of me also feels that I would feel very insecure as a woman as I don’t know if I would be enough to keep my partner happy and for that matter even satisfied if he still wishes to explore and be sexual with the same sex as himself.My theory is (and I could be completely wrong here) but bisexual people tend to be younger because the older you get I think if you wanted to experience another sex you already have or just didn’t want to at the time because it wasn’t for you.Although being bisexual doesn’t necessarily mean you’re equally attracted to multiple genders, it does seem feasible that these sorts of concerns could push a person with fluid attractions in the direction deemed more socially acceptable.Although there’s a dearth of research into whether these factors are actually prompting bisexuals to choose relationships that appear “straight” to the outside world, there’s no shortage of research revealing that bisexuals live under uniquely intense pressures within the LGBTQ community: In addition to facing heightened risks for cancer, STIs, and heart disease, bisexuals also experience higher rates of anxiety, depression, and substance abuse, and are significantly more likely to engage in self-harming behaviors or attempt suicide than heterosexuals, gays, or lesbians. So while I was attracted to him, I figured he would just be my gay best friend.Then, one night, we wound up in bed together, and let's just say that he did not act like a gay best friend usually acts.You don’t need a GSCE in maths to realise that makes bisexuality the second most common sexuality in the UK (in that demographic). I wouldn’t date a bisexual guy because a part of me believes that you just can’t be a 50/50 bisexual person and what I mean by that is that you are always going to be attracted to one sex a lot more than the other.There’s always going to be a preference and I can’t see my thoughts changing on that.

As a bisexual man in 2016 I’m used to the comments, I’ve heard the questions and my answers leave little room for a counter argument.As long as you are happy and that your partner makes you happy than that’s all that matters.Name: Laura Age: 27 Job: Special needs teaching assistant I would date a bisexual man and am actually doing so at the moment.For the last few months I’ve been dating an amazing girl, so imagine my shock and horror to find out that people have been quizzing her about my sexuality.How would you feel knowing that strangers have told the person you’re dating that you are confused or hiding the fact that you’re gay?